Muslim male dating non muslim female

15 Nov

From the beginning it has been clear that there are obstacles to our being together and we kept it very casual and light, but in the past few months we have become much, much closer and he expressed his love for me, and now I have allowed myself to love him very dearly also.However, what just happened a couple hours ago brought our true situation very present to me.Perhaps the Quran itself does not honor women, married or not. The Quran For the historical and literary topical context of this next sura (chapter), please click here. Islam allegedly is the best and final religion for all humankind, and the Muslim man may convert his submissive wife.Perhaps in Muhammad’s mind no woman could ever convert a Muslim man, if he is a traditionalist.While love seems to shelf rationality, onlookers usually respond with a chuckle: “never mind, they are in love.”Lovebirds should fly wherever they desire.Placing regulations on them would be like binding them in a cage.As the interview began, the host asked the Muslim guest whether he was married. The radio host pressed home the point, saying that the guest’s first statement was a little misleading, wasn’t it? Then, if I recall correctly, the radio host sensed his guest’s unease and changed the subject. Beyond any doubt, Islam is patriarchal, so a Muslim man must have final control in the relationship.

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But he doesn’t know what will happen with his country and situation, so I understand that too. I am beginning to realize that this love may be an impossible hope for me…and maybe there are aspects of his faith that limit him too much to even consider a longer term, more serious relationship, no matter how liberal he seems.Dating a Muslim is generally just like dating anyone else a varied and unpredictable experience that can vary widely depending on the guy's individual personality.However it does mean taking on a very strong set of beliefs and a very different culture.Staying awake during the nights, forgetting appointments, and daydreaming at work, all fall under symptoms of love.While love seems to shelf rationality, onlookers usually respond with a chuckle: “never mind,… Every girl looks forward to her wedding day, to her dress, to new beginnings; actually, not all girls.