Older widows dating

05 Dec

You want the hand-holding, movie outing, and bear-hugging-type dates. You’ve tried yoga, Planet Fitness, Home Owners Association meetings and you’ve even stooped so far as to rejoining bereavement groups, just for the possibility of bumping into a potential mate – and nothing. As a widow of five years, and a widow who has had my share of dating since his death, I feel I can share a thing or two about dating so I’ve developed these ten tips for the older widow to help you along the journey of dating. Please don’t feel that you have to pretend to be someone you’re not. Yes, lying about your age may give you a better chance at getting a date. Yes, you may feel youthful, sexy and carefree but, you’re lying.

We were the ‘cute couple’ to some, but I enjoyed my independence too much. I sure would …when I can come out of my selfish desires of enjoying company by myself, when I can finally admit to myself that I’m ready for a long-term relationship and more importantly, when I can stop giving excuses of running away because of the overall feelings of guilt of selecting someone other than my husband. I’ve dated many non-widowers but to be honest, I’ve never had so much fun with the only widower that was interested in me. Actually, I’ve been through it all and to be honest, the only one who made me truly smile, was-a-widower :-). Don’t settle for a man who doesn’t do anything for your mind or spirit. If he’s old enough to purchase wine, he’s an adult. ” (Post #38) Lessons Learned by a Dating Widower According to , no one knows the origination of the term “Geez Louise”, but it has been used for many years. I have fallen in love with ‘Louise’, and have proposed to her, the woman of my dreams! I expected that if all went well, I’d probably ask her for a 2nd, and perhaps a 3rd date; but most likely, that would be the extent of our interest. I was enthralled by her ability to articulate her thoughts and feelings through intelligent dialogue. She handled my impulsiveness with grace and calming dignity. I don’t remember much about my behavior, except that I was enthralled by her presence. I was captivated by her voice, her smile, her laughter, her love of life.