Rules for dating a chinese girl

01 Jun

Scott Thompson has been writing professionally since 1990, beginning with the "Pequawket Valley News." He is the author of nine published books on topics such as history, martial arts, poetry and fantasy fiction.

His work has also appeared in "Talebones" magazine and the "Strange Pleasures" anthology.

While many Americans don’t think twice about dating someone who is a member of another race, there are usually a number of big differences in the rules of etiquette when it comes to dating someone from outside your race that are important to become familiar with before making a decision to ask that person out on a date, especially when it comes to Chinese-American dating.

Before putting yourself in a potentially embarrassing situation, take the time to review these important rules of etiquette for Chinese-American dating.

Before asking a Chinese woman on a second or third date, make sure she is someone that you feel has strong potential for a serious relationship, if that’s what you’re looking for.

How do you successfully progress along the dating journey with a woman from another country, another continent? either at the shopping centre or at an event, or more likely these days, on-line you’ve met a potential Chinese girlfriend.

The initial nervous discussion, the initial shyness and, perhaps, even awkwardness, slowly begins to turn into a realisation that, perhaps…, maybe…, possibly…, here is someone who meets your requirements, matches your expectations of what a woman should be; of how a woman should look and behave.

Expectations about gender roles are much more conservative in traditional Chinese culture than in American culture.

If an American boy goes out to dinner with a Chinese girl and does not pay for her meal, the locals will view him he as having lost "face" or social status and they will regard him as a poor dating candidate.